What would you do in my place?

Originally Posted by keith4him

I have reached out to the local UPC presbyter in my section, but because the local city Pastor believes that he should be the only UPC pastor in his town, he will not allow a competing church.

Our city has 70,000 people in it.

I agree with the fundamental doctrine of the UPCI, always have, always will.

But my attempts to be a part of the organization in which I was raised and have tremendous appreciation and respect for, have up to this point in my life been unfruitful.

However I have been asked by a larger non-UPC group (many, if not all the ministers are ex-upc) to fellowship and eventually join their group.

Should I do this?

Or remain independent, hoping for a better day in the Western District?

What say ye?

Bro. Keith,

First, let me say that this is tragic for the souls of your city.

As to the real question, I would ask myself if I could walk in agreement with the men of this larger group. I would also ask myself if fellowship and membership in this group would positively or negatively affect my walk with God.

It is a tough situation and one I have been contemplating for several years. Desiring covering and fellowship I have explored many opportunities with numerous groups and I have come away convinced that I am prospered spiritually and ministerially more by remaining an independent fellowshipping in UPC circles.

I will be in prayer for the direction of the Holy Spirit in this matter as I see the decision affecting not only your ministry, but also your family.