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Originally Posted by CC1
Excellent point. Some people live their llife looking for offenses. There is a "holier than thou" judgmental spirit that gets hold of some people and their focus becomes a hyper sensitivity to anything that could possibly offend.
As I think HO mentioned she finds herself conditoined to instinctively judge other believers by a laundry list of how they look even though intellectually she rejects that now. She is not alone.
Now of course if past history holds true someone wil come on and claim that I am being judgemental in my statements. I would suggest I am relating facts not a judgement.
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She's just at that point in the process, CC1. I've been there, and every now and then catch myself going back there sometimes. That nagging "what if" is a tough "if" to overcome. That "what if I'm wrong about this" "if" eventually fades off in the distance.