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Originally Posted by Neck
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The addictive behavior is a quest for true intimacy.
Intimacy will not be found ever solely in an act.
Intimacy is pure, honest, loving and without selfish motives.
Fullfilment comes in a union of peace, love and unity.
Many pursue the next act to try and restore intimacy and unity.
Intimacy is found in a full relationship before the act, during the act and after the act.
All the talk on this thread about this act, that act, these facts, those facts only avoid the relationship that should exist outside the act.
Move away from the act and look at the motive.
If there is true beauty or poetry in tendor intimacy.
It will not intimidate, frustrate, or denigrate it will illuminate and elevate.
She is not an object to be pandered at my will.
She is the desire of heart, before she is the desire of my desires.
We all have a love story, many have just forgotten that their are 2 characters in the story.
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I am calling my pastor tomorrow and telling him he needs to hire you for all premarital counseling!
WOW! Another excellent post, Neck. So many good lines in this one post! I'm particularly drawn to the last sentence I put in bold print. Too many have strayed from the desire of heart and pursued selfish desires.