Seven Days of Sex... Woo Hoo!! :)

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified

Hmmm.

So what would qualify it as an addiction, other than...causing arguments?

I'm going to skip right over using it as a drug, because I don't really understand it, and can't really express my initial thoughts about it on here.

Sex should be fun--not just deliberate for a good reason. As long as both husband and wife are happy and fulfilled, I say it is an intimacy builder.

I also think that men do have higher sex drives than women naturally, so it wouldn't be fair to say that they are addicted to sex just because they want it more often. Nor is it fair to say a woman is frigid if she doesn't (want it as often).

The balance is found in couples pleasing one another, and doing what makes BOTH happy--and if that's every night, then I don't call that "addiction."

So...back to my question...what would you call "sexual addiction?"

I am really going to go to bed to sleep after this! I am never up this late!!

I'm not talking about the natural drive differences. If a person does not have respect towards their spouse....in reasonable frequency...in what is done in private....but feels a need to constantly pressure something that is not desired by the other....I would suspecy a sexual addiction. Because this person is not using sex as a means to more intimacy. The sex act is actually causing less intimacy and driving the couple apart.