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Originally Posted by edjen01
not really....i don't know why females go to the restroom in packs....but I don't think it has anything to do with security or acceptance....just like i think men going to bars, sporting venues, golf courses, etc...has nothing to do with them feeling independant.
bars, sporting venues, golf courses, all these places men go to and like to go to.....all have rules. and men understand these rules and how they are enforced....so I don't think men play golf because there are no rules and they are showing thier independance...or men attend sporting events because because they feel "set free"....or something.
I think men go to these places because they enjoy the activities going on there....and maybe they will go with some friends or see some friends there and have a great time....i don't think it has anything to do with independance.
my question is why aren't more church like this? why aren't they places where men want to go and where men have a great time?
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Ok, now you have me wondering about your age. No offense intended.
Security minded females, in general, don't care to be alone. Not even when they go to the restroom. They like company wherever they go. They like to have someone to talk to. If alone, they will often talk on the phone with someone.
Guys like their male companionship too but its generally not based on a sense of security or acceptance. They do so just to have fun.
As someone else already said, no one is telling them what to do when they are at a bar or a ball game. Sure, there are rules but thats way different than someone actually telling them how to live their lives.
Depending on the church and its leadership, a guy can be very unhappy with what appears to be other people dictating his life.
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