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Originally Posted by Pressing-On
They did? Solomon certainly didn't and I'm very sure Abraham didn't. lol
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You're right. I didn't take those into account who had multiple wives, but that wasn't the custom for everyone. For husbands of
one wife, they missed 12-14 days per month of sex, while their wife was
niddah, and for 7 days afterward.
Look, I don't know if you've noticed, but no one is really saying that women and men shouldn't grant each other "due benevolence."

I just don't believe if a person
sins they have the right to blame any other party than themselves.
The question here is not in the details of the matter, but in the matter of a broken covenant, in this case the marriage contract. Tell me, PO, is the marriage covenant broken
in God's eyes if a woman (or a man) denies their spouse sex?
If not, then I think we can assume that some matters are more important than others. And that while no one may escape
blame for some contribution to marital turmoil, there can be one party that
sins and
breaks the covenant, and one who does not.