Sis. Alvear,
You have done a very good job of explaining that Paul was quoting from tradition or oral law in
1 Corinthians 14:34-35 in order to refute it in verses 36-40. Not many people see it this way but that is the way I have understood it since back in 1959 when I heard it taught on a reel to reel tape by the late Gordon Magee. He quoted some of the same things you did from the oral law or traditions of the elders.