Why am I labeled backslid and unusable by God

[TheLegalist]

Originally Posted by 192281

Ok I have never taught the standards to anyone! I teach children and that is up to the pastor and parents not me.

Now on to the original post.

I did not come on here for a pat ont he back or comfort, I came to vent a bit. I would never cause problems with my church so when people email me or call me I thank them for their concern and let it go....This mornign was rough and I had someone telling me that If I leave I am unusable by God and it got to me so I came on here to vent..thats it!

Ferd,mizpeh,jfrog,the legalist..Im fine and I understand what you are saying but PLEASE listen once more...Its not the fact thay they are upset or conerned that is shocking or hurtful but its how they are going about it that. No matter how MANNED up I am...speaking negatively about a member of your church, slamming them at the table after dinner, emailing them and advising them they are on a train to hell is not the CORRECT way to handle their shock and hurt that Im leaving. Its ok to pray for me and my family, thats great and appreciated but keep it at that...

Never said the negative they are doing toward you are ok... I don't like it at all. Keep your head up and simply pray and let God do his will no matter where you are at.