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Originally Posted by revrandy
Whether or not the kids are good...bad...or indiffrent... generally they are a part of leadership whether they ask for it or not...
It's just that way in church.. Sad to say Many pastors put unrealistic expectations on their kids so much so it drives them away from the church.. not to mention the expectations put on them by the saints of the church...
My dad always drilled into us that fact that we represented him... and I in my own life begin to hate living that way..
Being a PK is a blessing and a curse at times...
but the truth is what the PK does there will be others that follow.. good or bad...
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Could be....but I hate that kind of pressure. That's why Zac keeps a very low profile at this church. Like I said, the church is new (5 yr) and has grown so fast, alot of people don't even know we have a son at home. He loves it!!
We have always told them how fortunate they are though that they get perks that other kids don't get....lots of vacations and trips to great places. They see that alot more as they get older.
I was not a PK, so I don't really understand how they feel. I chose this life as a PW, so I'm fine with my role.