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Originally Posted by Hegavmelif
Here is a perspective, How many women would endure the kind of verbal delivery and verbal content that we are critiquing JA for from their husbands? None of you. I have seen too many women in our movement walk away from their husbands of years simply because they did not like the tone in his voice or the way he talked to her.
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And you know this how?
Women, apostolic women specifically, endure this stuff and much worse all the time. Many of them, I would say MOST of them, DON'T leave.
The reasons they stay vary from woman to woman. Some of them that stay actually SHOULD leave. But thats a whole different topic in itself.
I don't care for your analogy.
I don't like dead, dull, monotone, pansy preaching either but sometimes I have to endure it. Sometimes I have to look past the person and their delivery style and listen to the Word. Other times, as is the case with conferences and such, I can choose NOT to attend if I don't like the speaker.
So long as the problem isn't with my own pastor, all is well. Otherwise, the choice is mine. There are alot of preachers I don't care for due to "style" but that doesn't mean their style is necessarily wrong. I can't expect everyone to always speak the way "I" believe they should speak.
Oh, btw, I'll be sure to tell my husband that the next time he speaks to me in a "rude, crude, or crass" manner, I'm gonna leave him.