Good post, Mizpeh!
You are reminding me a scripture the Lord gave me concerning a situation in my life. In fact the Lord reminded me of this very scripture on three occasions.
II Thessalonians 314 "And if any man obey not our word by this epistle, note that man, and have no company with him, that he may be ashamed. (15)
Yet count him not as an enemy, but admonish him as a brother."