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Originally Posted by Ron
That is appropriate.
Let this family member know that "she" is responsible and will be held accountable if something happens.
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The only thing with this approach (which I don't disagree with) is if you do confront the family member and they do nothing to change, if you subsequently make an anon report to the county agency, it is probably going to be pretty apparent where the complaint came from.
I guess it depends on how much you need to keep peace with this person. Either way, based on what you have said, I don't think you are overreacting, and I do think for the sake of your conscience, and for the sake of the elderly relative, you need to do something. IMO.