One of the Biggest Mistakes

[Hoovie]

Originally Posted by Kae

The UPC church that I grew up in taught that the church came first, children second and husband third. I was also taught to never say no to the pastor. I am also very careful of what I say due to the criticism that abounds.

That is bizarre Kae. Did you actually buy into that?

[Kae]

Originally Posted by Stephen Hoover

That is bizarre Kae. Did you actually buy into that?

I grew up with this thinking so it was just normal. When I went to bible college, I learned that the church started with the family. I just remember after bible college thinking that the church I grew up in was very misguided. After I got married my husband is first, then children, then the church.