Anyways, Paul would not be an elder by the definition I am giving, but that is not a bad thing, Paul was an apostle. Men without wives or children are not barred from being apostles or evangelists, it's just that they can't be elders or deacons, what say the rest of ye?
With this talk of find a wife though, I would not mind prayers going up that I could become an elder or a deacon (and meet ALL of the qualifications that entails,

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-Bro. Alex