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Originally Posted by Rhoni
lov·er (l  v   r)
n. 1. One who loves another
2. lovers A couple in love with each other.
3. A paramour.
4. One who is fond of or devoted to something: a lover of fine food.
Definitions of the word are many. I am not sure why many of you always look at worst case scenerio.
Blessings, Rhoni
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www.dictionary.com says:
1. a person who is in love with another.
2. a person who has a sexual or romantic relationship with another.
3. a person with whom one conducts an extramarital sexual affair.
4. a person who has a strong enjoyment or liking for something, as specified: a lover of music.
5. a person who loves, esp. a person who has or shows a warm and general affectionate regard for others: a lover of mankind.
Frankly, I can't imagine being in love with someone and not wanting to have sex with them. Maybe you have a different set of hormones than the rest of us.

Isn't it a little unfair to the man, too? "Nuzzle my neck, baby, but it won't ever go any farther, and marriage (and permissible sex) is permanently out of the question!"
Anyway, if you are using ANY of the first three definitions, a sexual relationship/chemistry is implied, at the very least. Which makes ALL of our questions in context, and your sanitized version out of context.