I think that some men and women process things the same and some do not.
It's like a male friend of mine told me. There has to be some loose women out there to "be" with the guys that sleep around. So there is definitely some women out there with these issues. I had never thought about that until he pointed it out.
Yes - - I could teach a seminar on "Wake up you Idiots and Be Sexy with your Husband" now! or "Don't Give them a Reason to Wander" or "It's Not a Sin to Have Fun (with your husband)" or oh, I could go on and on.
I'm sorry to hear that. But still, you didn't deserve what you got.
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Those who say it cannot be done should not interrupt the people doing it. ~Chinese Proverb
When I was young and clever, I wanted to change the world. Now that I am older and wiser, I strive to change myself. ~
For people who say images don't bother them at all... it's a scientific fact that the human brain elicits strong, and abrupt responses to erotic images. This isn't a conscious choice as much as your brain telling you are hungry isn't a conscious choice. http://news.wustl.edu/news/Pages/7319.aspx
Regarding the clear gender differences, sex research fills volumes of work showing this night and day difference between men and women.
It's like a male friend of mine told me. There has to be some loose women out there to "be" with the guys that sleep around. So there is definitely some women out there with these issues. I had never thought about that until he pointed it out.
But I think a woman being loose and a man who is loose are that way for different reasons-- they both get something entirely different out of it.
It is my perception. My husband and I have different personalities and backgrounds. If I was not living for God, I would have a harder time being faithful to him than he would to me. That is where I get my perception.
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