Sex Scenes

[Elizabeth]

Originally Posted by Socialite

From the link I shared earlier:



Again, one of thousands of studies on this.

I think the point you are making is common knowledge for most of us.

[MrsMcD]

Originally Posted by Pressing-On

I think that some men and women process things the same and some do not.

It's like a male friend of mine told me. There has to be some loose women out there to "be" with the guys that sleep around. So there is definitely some women out there with these issues. I had never thought about that until he pointed it out.

[ILG]

Originally Posted by rgcraig

Yes - - I could teach a seminar on "Wake up you Idiots and Be Sexy with your Husband" now! or "Don't Give them a Reason to Wander" or "It's Not a Sin to Have Fun (with your husband)" or oh, I could go on and on.

I'm sorry to hear that. But still, you didn't deserve what you got.

[Socialite]

For people who say images don't bother them at all... it's a scientific fact that the human brain elicits strong, and abrupt responses to erotic images. This isn't a conscious choice as much as your brain telling you are hungry isn't a conscious choice.
http://news.wustl.edu/news/Pages/7319.aspx

Regarding the clear gender differences, sex research fills volumes of work showing this night and day difference between men and women.

[Socialite]

Originally Posted by Elizabeth

I think the point you are making is common knowledge for most of us.

I thought so too, Elizabeth.

Apparently not.

[Elizabeth]

Originally Posted by MrsMcD

It's like a male friend of mine told me. There has to be some loose women out there to "be" with the guys that sleep around. So there is definitely some women out there with these issues. I had never thought about that until he pointed it out.

But I think a woman being loose and a man who is loose are that way for different reasons-- they both get something entirely different out of it.

[Pressing-On]

Originally Posted by Socialite

Fair enough. It's your perception.

It is my perception. My husband and I have different personalities and backgrounds. If I was not living for God, I would have a harder time being faithful to him than he would to me. That is where I get my perception.

[ILG]

Originally Posted by Socialite

I'm not talking about sex drive.

Women are extremely emotional with low sex drive in their 20's.

Men are highly sexual in their 20's.

But when it comes to seeing someone attractive, I don't know what a man sees.

[rgcraig]

Originally Posted by ILG

I'm sorry to hear that. But still, you didn't deserve what you got.

Oh, it wasn't that......I don't think there was anything I could have done to change my outcome.

It's because now I'm alone and I see all these wives complaining and not putting much into their marriage and it saddens me.

[MrsMcD]

Originally Posted by Elizabeth

But I think a woman being loose and a man who is loose are that way for different reasons-- they both get something entirely different out of it.

True. Most women that are like that come from abused homes or have had some traumatic experience in their life.