please help me with this

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i have a friend who had a financial need, we prayed together and asked the lord in agreement to make away, she would ask people to help meet her need ,i on the other hand did not feel this was trusting in god to make the way, what do you think i remember a time i was in need of something and i went to a very close relative well i was hurt i could not believe they did not help me i was so hurt, but when i got home i heard i didnt tell you to ask them you are to ask me,but because i took it upon myself i got my feelings hurt, my friend said god showed you a way to do things and me a way something just didnt seem right, could someone give me there thoughts on this