me...

I'm doing my best.

I actually posted what the issue was, but thought better of it... that's got to count for something I guess.

Seriously, this is really hurting me... and not just emotionally or mentally... it's now hurting financially as well.


I really need God's help here...

[trent4]

I'm praying for you.

I have a very close friend that is going through a divorce...it has got to be one of the hardest things in life that people go thourgh.

But God knows right where you are and He is able to change hearts.

Hang in there!
trent4

Originally Posted by trent4

I have a very close friend that is going through a divorce...it has got to be one of the hardest things in life that people go thourgh.

This is by far the hardest thing I've ever gone through, yes.

[Trouvere]

This is so fast for something so important as a marriage vow.What does the pastor say?

Originally Posted by Trouvere

This is so fast for something so important as a marriage vow.What does the pastor say?

I'm not sure what a pastor has to say about it has anything to do with the situation, friend.

[Trouvere]

Originally Posted by Ronzo

I'm not sure what a pastor has to say about it has anything to do with the situation, friend.

Did you not go for counsel and prayer?

Originally Posted by Trouvere

Did you not go for counsel and prayer?

She doesn't want counselling. She wants OUT.

What am I supposed to do? Hog tie her and drag her to counselling?

[Trouvere]

Originally Posted by Ronzo

She doesn't want counselling. She wants OUT.

What am I supposed to do? Hog tie her and drag her to counselling?

I did not have her in mind.I thought maybe you had gone and ask your pastor to pray for you and speak to you concerning what you are going through.He may have a word from the Lord for you that would encourage you.

Originally Posted by Trouvere

I did not have her in mind.I thought maybe you had gone and ask your pastor to pray for you and speak to you concerning what you are going through.He may have a word from the Lord for you that would encourage you.

I've already been counselling with my spiritual mentors and close friends. They're praying for me and keeping me on track emotionally... as much as possible, I guess.

I've gotten my word from the Lord... out of his Book.

"I am with you always, even to the end of the world"

"I will never leave you nor forsake you"

"I am the Lord that heals you"

"I will give you beauty for ashes and the oil of joy for mourning"

[Trouvere]

Originally Posted by Ronzo

I've already been counselling with my spiritual mentors and close friends. They're praying for me and keeping me on track emotionally... as much as possible, I guess.

I've gotten my word from the Lord... out of his Book.

"I am with you always, even to the end of the world"

"I will never leave you nor forsake you"

"I am the Lord that heals you"

"I will give you beauty for ashes and the oil of joy for mourning"

Brother I don't mean to offend you but when I am going through a major trial
I go and sit with my pastor who is my spiritual mentor.He then prays for me
and listens and gives me words of counsel.I never feel condemned even when I am wrong.I do however feel better because its kept private and the whole church and my friends are not involved.Honestly I have some friends who love me so much that they would side with me even when I am wrong.I want truth even if truth hurts.I don't know your particular situation but I am praying for you.I remember the beautiful pictures you posted on the net and how happy you were when you married your sweetheart.I am sorry you are going through this.