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Old 08-04-2011, 04:41 PM
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Do you prefer church folks call you brother or sister? Why/why not?
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Old 08-04-2011, 04:43 PM
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Re: Brother and Sister

Maybe the first few times its all right but to formal. John said "greet the friends by name".
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Old 08-04-2011, 04:57 PM
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Do you prefer church folks call you brother or sister? Why/why not?
I prefer to be called brother. I haven't thought about it that much, but I just feel that sister would be a little inappropriate.
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Old 08-04-2011, 05:04 PM
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No. Please don't precede my name with brother.
As a matter of fact I sometimes like to call people by their first name at church because many just look at me like "I can't believe u didn't call me brother or sister first. I just like messing with religious traditions that folks cling to and consider almost a heaven or hell thing if you don't go along.

Gets me also how new folks come to church and those in the church introduce themselves by saying "hello, I'm Brother or sister so and so.
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Old 08-04-2011, 05:08 PM
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I don't mind calling older folks "Brother" or "Sister". It sort of replaces Mr or Mrs to me. But I really don't like using it for anyone else outside of the lodge where I have no problem saying "Brother Kramden" or "Brother Norton".
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Old 08-04-2011, 05:11 PM
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It's an interesting tradition. Do other churches do this, or is it a UPC thing?
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Old 08-04-2011, 05:19 PM
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It's an interesting tradition. Do other churches do this, or is it a UPC thing?
A lot of other churches say Brother and Sister not just UPC. Btw, I've never been to a UPC...
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Old 08-04-2011, 05:21 PM
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No. Please don't precede my name with brother.
As a matter of fact I like to call people by their first name at church because many just look at me like "I can't believe u didn't call me brother or sister first. I just like messing with religious traditions that folks cling to and consider almost a heaven or hell thing if you don't go along.

Gets me also how new folks come to church and those in the church introduce themselves by saying "hello, I'm Brother or sister so and so.
Granted not calling someone "brother" or "sister" is not a sin but pride is.

Yes, it's a tradition, but it's a tradition based in scripture.

"Rebuke not an elder, but intreat him as a father; and the younger men as brethren; The elder women as mothers; the younger as sisters, with all purity" 1 Timothy 5:1-2

I refer to most as "sister" or "brother" who are in the faith, I refer to the older women as "mother", who are in the faith. I do so out respect not out of necessity. For those who don't hold to that tradition, I'm fine with, but making an effort not to in order to attract attention is pretty prideful to me.

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Old 08-04-2011, 05:23 PM
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It's an interesting tradition. Do other churches do this, or is it a UPC thing?
PAW, PCAF, COOLJC I know for a fact all three. Most every COGIC and African American Pentecostal Church does as well OP or not. I know also some Assemblies of God and Charismatic churches do. Most African American Baptist churches and some black Methodist churches. A whole chunk of the protestant movement does this. It's a VERY common practice in evangelical christiandom.
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Old 08-04-2011, 05:26 PM
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It's an interesting tradition. Do other churches do this, or is it a UPC thing?
There is also the Water Buffaloes, the Royal Order of the Racoons, and the Grand Mystic Royal Order of the Nobles of the Ali Babel Temple of the shrine.
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