Where am I going???

Sandra79 · #1 08-19-2011, 08:29 PM

Okay im seriously looking to move away. Ive "planned" on 2 to 3 yrs but sooner would b better. And I need some ppl on here to help me out and plz b serious when responding. Things im looking for in the location im gonna move to is cost of living, job opportunity (would love to continue to work for a call center but not in sales) and finding a good conserative church. If anywhere has any ideals to where I can get those things or if anyone has any ideals of things I need to equipt myself in this moving process that would be much appreciative.

To tell u a little bout where im coming from and why I need to get out of my location so it will help on sum ideals from yall. I live in Indiana desire to go SOUTH of here NOT NORTH also Im in an area that every Apostolic person knows me and I dont have a good rep. Im not running away, im just looking to start fresh, to where I dont feel like if I go sumwhere and see an Apostolic person they r going to hold sumthing over my head. Im 31 single and feel like it could possibily help my future, not that im moving for trying to meet a mate, cuz I kno God could just drop him into my life rite here, but im ready for an adventure. Ive even been told by several ppl including a former Pastors wife which knows all circumstances in my life that it could be the best thing for me.

I currently own my own house totally paid for (very small), but dont want to sell it. Ive thought bout renting it out and letting a real estate agency have control over it. Just incase in several yrs I want to come back. Plus it will give me a little extra $$$! I kno I want to rent where ever I go, at least until I know it perminate. Which I know will be hard cuz im not used to coming up with a house payment or rent, but figured Id use the $ I got from renting my house out straight on that.

I also kno when I move im not telling ANYONE where im going or when im going. I have talked to SEVERAL ppl including my mom to let them kno that I am eventually moving so they will kno ahead of time im fine. Then thought a month after I move id send a letter to my family (thru the real estate agency which will only kno where I am, then they can forward it on) to let everyone know im fine, thought id change my phone number as well. I know sounds extreme but honestly it is so necessary in my life.

Well anyone have any ideals??? Many thanks in advance!!!

Cindy · #2 08-19-2011, 08:40 PM

Pray first. And get a job to wherever you're moving to, before you move.

houston · #3 08-19-2011, 08:43 PM

texas?

aegsm76 · #4 08-19-2011, 08:47 PM

The Dallas area is great for housing, churches, and jobs.
The Oklahoma City area is great for housing and has lots of call center type jobs, but the church options are more limited. There are good churches there, just not as many as in Dallas.
I was in a similar situation about 6 years ago and moved.
It has worked out for the better, although I still miss some things about my old place.

Sandra79 · #5 08-19-2011, 08:48 PM

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Originally Posted by houston

texas?

Yea I kno houston has an at&t call center, but wonder wat the cost of living is there compared to Indiana? Id prob live in the outskirts of a big city, I live bout an hr from Indy now. Any good conserivate churches down there, if so would u b able to give me sum names even if thru email? Thanks bunches!

Sandra79 · #6 08-19-2011, 08:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Cindy

Pray first. And get a job to wherever you're moving to, before you move.

Yes maam prayer is always necessary. I figured id b visiting a few places next spring. Call centers are always sooo easy to get on at as well.

thank u

Hoovie · #7 08-19-2011, 10:16 PM

Sandra, I hope and pray things go better for you I really do!

Please understand the support and direction you will receive on an online forum is limited at best. We don't know you and you don't know us.

Is there anyone at all you know and respect enough to give you guided counsel? I am not saying this to shut down this thread or stifle and help you might find here. Just keep your expectations of advise from online forums realistic.

Blessings! Steve

Sandra79 · #8 08-20-2011, 05:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Hoovie

Sandra, I hope and pray things go better for you I really do!

Please understand the support and direction you will receive on an online forum is limited at best. We don't know you and you don't know us.

Is there anyone at all you know and respect enough to give you guided counsel? I am not saying this to shut down this thread or stifle and help you might find here. Just keep your expectations of advise from online forums realistic.

Blessings! Steve

REALLY??? Im not seeking counsel. Not that im against it. I know im on a form that ppl live everywhere. Im mainly asking if ppl know a place thats south, that is lower cost of living that has call centers, and has conservative churches. Easy as that, so I kno where to research. Sorry if I got more detail, there are times I need to vent, which I know ill never do on here anymore. Im hardly on here to begin with. This will b my last thread. I wish I knew how to delete my acct. Take.care!

Amanah · #9 08-20-2011, 06:08 AM

Sandra, please don't feel offended. Hoovies post was made with concern for you, not with the intention of offending you. Please feel free to post and interact with us.

Amanah · #10 08-20-2011, 06:11 AM

imo, if you have a home and a job I would not think of moving anywhere right now with the economy the way it is

you might be better of commuting to a church that is farther away if there is another church within an hours drive of you.