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View Poll Results: Which is Right?
Everyone should put the desk area as they see fit when they come in. 14 60.87%
Since most like the keyboard flat, you are responsible to change it back. 1 4.35%
The problem is not the keyboard but that your coworker thinks she can boss you around. 6 26.09%
The problem is not the keyboard but that you don't want to change the keyboard to make her happy. 2 8.70%
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Old 10-21-2011, 08:16 PM
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Re: Coworker Spat

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This is what I think you really should do. Do what your boss asked you to do and put the keyboard like they want it. But don't stay away from the area or give her any sense that this has gotten to you in any way. Find a way to enjoy being on the job, either by having fun with your co workers, or any way you can. And just let her see you being happy and that it's not bothering you. Let her wonder how it is that you can be happy, having joy in any situation, since she is obviously not a happy person.
But it does bother me and I am not happy about it. However, I will enjoy my job and have fun working away from that area. Basically my message intends to be "I feel better away from you".

I have gotten into it with her before. Usually once she gets over her "mood" things go back to normal until the next time. My supervisor knows this. My coworker is not a bad person but I think she has issues. I don't want to be involved in the toxicity anymore than I have to.
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