Sis. Titus, your first post is good and I understand many of your sentiments.
For me, the questions are a bit more convoluted. The easy part would me penning my personal preferences and even "absolutely must haves"...
...the not-so-easy part is knowing what my obligations are to a spouse and heritage that may not be 100% in sync with my thoughts. It's no small thing and I dont take it lightly. My marriage and family is a primary holy covenant and I don't wish to weaken it by personal religiosity sqabbles.
The second serious consideration for me would be the fact that we are nit in a metro area with many options should I decide tO go "shopping" for churches. I really am not sure there is anything better suited to me than where I am....