So Sexy Isn't Offensive? - Page 14

tv1a · #**131** 06-15-2012, 07:02 PM

Someone suggested my wife and I see a counselor because I said she would knock me up side the head if I went into details about someone's "sexy" outfit and how they looked in it. My marriage is rock solid. I believe my wife should be concerned if I was able describe in detail a person's outfit and what was showing and what wasn't showing. No one should be staring at a person long enough to be describing the most intimate parts of the person's anatomy. Unless a person is a pro, it takes more than a quick glance to accurately describe the scene. I wonder how much of the initial post was reality and how much was creative license. The phrase "I couldn't help myself from looking" should send a warning signal that the flesh needs calibrated to be more in line with the Spirit.

RandyWayne · #**132** 06-15-2012, 11:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Michael Phelps

I'm not saying your a liar. I think you truly believe that you have joy. All I'm saying is that your words betray you...........but, if this lifestyle gives you a feeling of joy, then I'm happy for you.

But, you really get defensive when someone questions it, which is another blatant indicator that you're trying to convince yourself...........

Like I said......

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Originally Posted by RandyWayne

"Ohhhhhhhh I have joyyyyy unspeakable annnndddd fullllll of glorrrryyyyyyy.... Rrrrrrrrrrrrrrr"

RandyWayne · #**133** 06-15-2012, 11:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Amanah

I never said we should not laugh, I just don't fault Bro Robbins for choosing to be serious.

I DO fault him, to a certain extent. It is one thing to say "I'm serious! Don't kid with me!" (to which he will undoubtedly say I put words in his mouth again), and quite another to say "I'm serious! And it is a sin if you aren't too!" (to which he will ALSO say I put words in his mouth).

And while I admit I could be wrong, I am also under the impression that working with him must be like having Dwight Schrute as a fellow employee. Always serious and ready to turn you in for something, but also very very easy to play gags on! LOL

RandyWayne · #**134** 06-15-2012, 11:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Bro. Robbins

maybe in my flesh... but that is crucified....

Well to be consistent I hope you only eat food you hate, lest you actually enjoy it. I hope you only wear cloths which itch and scratch, lest they be comfortable. I hope you keep your air either too cold or too warm, lest you sleep too well at night.

I AM joking here but the sad part is is that you may not think I am, and actually agree with me.

RandyWayne · #**135** 06-15-2012, 11:50 PM

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Originally Posted by rgcraig

I don't fault him either, but to say that Jesus never had fun - - don't believe it.

The crazy thing is is that I could see Jesus laugh while watching this.

Amanah · #**136** 06-16-2012, 04:26 AM

The original topic of this thread was about a woman who dressed inapropriately in the workplace, and whether it was offensive or not. Maybe "girls just wanna have fun," but are not aware that they are being objectified by those viewing their display?

http://edition.cnn.com/2009/HEALTH/0...ef=mpstoryview

houston · #**137** 06-16-2012, 04:33 AM

Women want the attention but don't want to be touched. You don't take a boy to the toy store tell him that he can't touch what's on display. Sorry .. off topic.

RandyWayne · #**138** 06-16-2012, 10:01 AM

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Originally Posted by houston

Women want the attention but don't want to be touched. You don't take a boy to the toy store tell him that he can't touch what's on display. Sorry .. off topic.

A quote worthy of Rhoda Morgensterns mother.

MissBrattified · #**139** 06-16-2012, 10:08 AM

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Originally Posted by houston

Women want the attention but don't want to be touched. You don't take a boy to the toy store tell him that he can't touch what's on display. Sorry .. off topic.

No, but you can tell a Christian man that....

In reality, we have already instructed our son that even though some women are immodest with their clothing choices, he has to be modest with his eyes. If a woman is immodest, then you have to be modest and look away. Whether a woman is "asking" for it is irrelevant to the conversation; a Christian man's modesty isn't determined by the company he's in.

Respecting women can and should be taught, and it shouldn't be reserved for respectable women. A gentleman shows respect to ALL women, regardless of whether they deserve it or not.

RandyWayne · #**140** 06-16-2012, 10:16 AM

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified

No, but you can tell a Christian man that....

In reality, we have already instructed our son that even though some women are immodest with their clothing choices, he has to be modest with his eyes. If a woman is immodest, then you have to be modest and look away. Whether a woman is "asking" for it is irrelevant to the conversation; a Christian man's modesty isn't determined by the company he's in.

Respecting women can and should be taught, and it shouldn't be reserved for respectable women. A gentleman shows respect to ALL women, regardless of whether they deserve it or not.

And if he really respects them, he turns them into HR. For their own good ya understand.....