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Originally Posted by HeavenlyOne
You speak as a white man about the hair of white women. Black men don't speak this way, even in the UPC. Know why? Because God didn't see fit to give black women the ability to grow 'long' hair, in most cases! Black women's hair doesn't look much different than the men, unless the men shave theirs. Their hair isn't an attraction. It doesn't get the stares that long hair on a white women would get.
This is only one of several problems that the 'long hair looks more feminine and gives more of a distinction between genders' arguments have. Black women just can't compete.
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you are right I went to a black UC UPC church for a while when I was in college. They just don't really focus on the hair thing at all. My hair was cut when I started going and they still called me sister and did not treat me any different.