How to deal with cheating husband

[Nitehawk013]

It's interesting that from that one small sample video so many have deduced that the husband is a serial adulterer, regularly unfaithful, non-repentant, terrible human being. Yet form this same small sample, this woman is a poor, downtrodden, saintly woman overflowing with the love of Jesus just simply struggling with forgiveness.

We get almost no details of the people involved. All we KNOW for certain from the video is that there was 1 affair for sure. The couple has gone to, and it sounds like completed, counselling. The husband is still in the home. The wife will not forgive and let the relationship move past this moral failure that happened at some time in the past. That is all the facts we have. The woman admits SHE is the one who won't let it move on. SHE won't let the husband off the hook for his failure.

Pat may be stupid with the whole "boys wi8ll be boys" mantra, but he is dead on about the rest. SHE needs to get over it and move on if she wants the marriage to survive. Based only on what was said in that small statement in the video, this is the woman who is hindering restoration. Maybe there is more going on behind the scenes, but we don't know. If this was a trial and we were the jury, we would be told we ONLY have the facts of that video to go on since that is all we know. Her own words reveal she is the one who will not really forgive. Pat just called her out on it. Heaven forbid!

What we do know is that this thread just looks like a huge "dogpile on the scumbag men" load of nonsense.