06-10-2007, 06:54 PM
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Join Date: Feb 2007
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Originally Posted by Rhoni
Tamor,
God knows me inside and out and God knows what I need to hear and I do believe that I'll just know. It is just like anything else in your life...if you have to force it...it isn't right.
Kind of reminds me of that 70's song...
If it don't fit..
Don't force it,
Just relax and let it be.
Just because that's the way you want it...
Doesn't mean that it will be so.
Many times you have to listen to your body in these matters also. I am not talking about physical attraction...I was in an abusive relationship once and I didn't know with my head that I was being controlled, setup, manipulated, "groomed" if you would...but the anxiety I felt when with this person caused me to pick at my arm and lower back until I almost scarred it. My head was saying that he is the one even though outside my box, my heart was in love with being in love, but my body was saying...get the blank out of Dodge:sshhh.
God was good and gave me a strong support system and I made it through but it is tough when you give your heart to someone who does not belong there. I heard one preacher put it like this..."You might have thought you were with Prince Charming but he turned out to be Freddie Kruger, and now you have your own Nightmare on Elm Street oloroid. "
My supervisor at work..Ph.D told me not to date anyone unless I do a criminal background check, a thorough psychological evaluation/testing, and then pray and fast 40 days and nights! And she is Jewish! LOL 
Blessings, Rhoni |
Just wanted to say that there are many signs to watch for but you need to trust yourself and your instincts. Don't ignore warning signals...it is a matter of life and death for some.
Blessings, Rhoni
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