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Originally Posted by Pragmatist
I second the suggestion of the book. I think it's by Gary Chapman.
I couldn't care less about cards and gifts. I tell my husband not to waste the money. I need him to tell me he loves me and that I'm beautiful.
It really is a good book and makes a lot of sense when you figure out what a person's love language is.
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The way you communicate love then must be through encouraging words.It would then hurt the relationship if he constantly criticized you.
I have to share this.My husband likes to do things for me.His love language is service.He went out and bought me some rose bushes and planted them in the front yard.He also waters and feeds my herb garden and does the lawn.I used to do the lawn when I was a stay at home mom and he worked alot
more.He knows how important that is to me.
So its safe to say different people not just women want different things.
Its not cut and dry.