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Originally Posted by The Mrs
Wasn't there a big brew-ha-ha over on NFCF over this book? 
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I don't remember...but I have read the book, and I think it teaches a woman to be completely manipulative, and while I can see how that benefits one to some extent  , I don't see it as being profitable in a Christian marriage. Just trying to please your husband isn't manipulation, but when you do it for selfish reasons, or to get your own way, rather than because you love your man--THAT is manipulative and dishonest. (And unchristian.)
P.S. This is not to say I have never tried to get my own way. I am, after all, a brat.  I do try to let God help me be less bratty....
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"God, send me anywhere, only go with me. Lay any burden on me, only sustain me. And sever any tie in my heart except the tie that binds my heart to Yours."
--David Livingstone
"To see no being, not God’s or any, but you also go thither,
To see no possession but you may possess it—enjoying all without labor or purchase—
abstracting the feast, yet not abstracting one particle of it;…."
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