Originally Posted by MissBrattified
Rhoni,
Then I guess I am deluded and believing a lie, because I don't believe for a moment that RRFord and Coonskinner have it out for you. I do believe that they disagree with what you are doing, and they point it out whenever they feel like it.
So do I, come to think of it (point out what I disagree with when I feel like it). So just lump me in with them.
I personally think you are way too sensitive to be participating in these online forums. You consistently are deeply offended, and usually by comments that are no different from what is offered to every other person. In other words, what I would say to you when I disagree is no different than what I would say to Pastor Poster, Chan, Coonskinner, Felicity or anyone else, e.g., I'm not picking on you.
I haven't seen inconsistency from these men. Chan calls it like he sees it all the time, on every topic that interests him, no matter who authored the first post. He's disagreed with me quite vehemently before, and I don't recall taking it personally. He has the right to think what he thinks and state what he thinks, just like you do.
Coonskinner was quite amiable in his first few posts on your thread. Then he happened to disagree with some of your advice offered, and suddenly he was Public Enemy No. 1.
What I object to from you is this constantly offered up problem of being picked on and victimized and mistreated, allegedly in a way no one else is subjected to, and I just don't see it. I think there are a myriad of posting styles and points of view and they are all worth hearing, including yours, but you seem to only want to hear the ones that agree with you, and if anyone posts something in disagreement, you respond defensively rather than intellectually, which really doesn't work in a productive manner.
You seem to always feel you are being judged, when, again, folks simply disagree with you. Instead of supporting your points, defending your arguments and propping up your perspectives, you spend your time being offended and stating how offended you are, and then you are even more offended when some people find that sort of response discredits you overall.
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