Rhonda .......
Soul winning and discipling are not synonymous.
And I have been talking about discipling as have the others here that you mentioned. In fact, I wrote a post about some of the ways we go about discipling people.
I feel that for the most part ... and some of your comments have been good btw .... you've been talking more about evangelism, soulwinning and some perceived weaknesses of the church in regard to relationship and discipling.