I always stress over them coming. Lord only knows why. They wouldn't care if the place was cluttered, and I fed them bologna sandwiches. It's ME that can't stand for things to be cluttered when she comes. I put WAY too much stress on myself.
Besides, she only gets here about twice a year... so I can deal with that.
I'm not so sure we'd have the great relationship that we do if she was close enough to be here on a regular basis.