I guess I am the oddball on this one (go figure). I have always thought that it would be preferable to be rejected for a man, at least that way you know that you couldn't possibly compete.
I have dealt with rejection from most every angle but that one, I don't think that would have been quite as painful. Then again, no one really knows how they would feel about something unless they have actually lived it.
I'm just thankful I haven't experienced any of the above.
Although if I had to choose, I think it would be C. Because then it wouldn't be my fault or anything I could have helped or prevented... and it wouldn't be me personally he wasn't happy with.
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I'm just thankful I haven't experienced any of the above.
Although if I had to choose, I think it would be C. Because then it wouldn't be my fault or anything I could have helped or prevented... and it wouldn't be me personally he wasn't happy with.
Thank goodness, now I'm not the lone ranger out here shivering in the cold!!
If my husband were to have sex with prostitutes or - heaven forbid - with another man, it would be even more disgusting to me than if he had a long-term affair with a woman. Having sex with prostitutes or sex with another man would put him on the same level as a common dog or any other animal. That's just sex for the sake of sex.
At least if it was an affair, you might assume that there was some sort of emotional attachments.
That doesn't make it ok. But at least I wouldn't have to wonder for the rest of my life how it was that I had ended up married to an animal instead of a human being.
My wife would be very forgiving and loving and understanding, in accordance with 1 Cor 13, Matthew 18:22, etc., for any of the three. ... Um. ... I think.
For most ordinary guys, who are not rich, famous or movie star handsome, it's not really about how attractive the other woman is, It is about how much she makes you feel valued. It's the strongest need of all men: the need to have value.
My husband has said many times, that if a man is happy in the home, then he stays home.....
My husband and I work together on this. I tell him everyday that he is incredible and the most wonderful man I know! He nods and says he knows it already! LOL!
We have the most incredible marriage ever so I don't know how I would feel about the original post. I have know people in all 3 scenerios. All 3 have left major scars on ones life!
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*sigh* I did nothing yesterday.... I wasn't finished so I did nothing again today!
Thank goodness, now I'm not the lone ranger out here shivering in the cold!!
I immediately thought C.
If he had an affair with anyone (male or female) he'd be joining MM at the bottom of the river. Better yet... at the bottom of the headpond. (It's deeper!!!)
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Psalm 19:14
Let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in thy sight, O LORD, my strength, and my redeemer.
C definitely has the highest Ick Factor. Especially if he spends "quality time" with his boyfriend and his wife the same day.
Yuck.
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(Excuse me. I think I just threw up in my mouth.)
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