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Old 05-23-2008, 08:12 AM
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Thanks sis. My wife and I both come from broken homes and we have a special burden for helping marriages. Too many marriages are failing. Sadly, most marriages that die only die because husbands and wives allow them to die.
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Old 05-23-2008, 08:27 AM
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Thanks sis. My wife and I both come from broken homes and we have a special burden for helping marriages. Too many marriages are failing. Sadly, most marriages that die only die because husbands and wives allow them to die.
I believe there's a BIG hole in our churches in this area. Couples are told to pray for a spouse, then since it's God's will that's all the instruction they get.

NOT GOOD!!!

My daughter and her fiancé are going through pre-marital counseling with the youth pastor and wife, which I am so thankful for. This past week she called me all excited telling me about their session.

The pastor and wife had set up a table for them and served them dinner (just my daughter and her fiancé). They left them alone to enjoy the dinner, then came back after dinner and started teaching on servitude.

They talked about how important it was to have a servant's heart in a marriage and they watched the portion of "The Passion" where Jesus washed the disciples feet and brought out the point how Jesus was able to do that knowing what Peter and Judas were about to do and applied that to marriage too.

Then, he brought in a basin of water and towels and said it was left up to them, but if they would like to reflect upon what they discussed and then wash each other's feet he was making it available to them. Then he and his wife left them alone.

She said they did it and it was so special - they prayed, cried and applied the lesson deep in their hearts, even to the point she said it was life changing.

I so appreciate someone cares enough to mentor our youth!
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Old 05-23-2008, 08:30 AM
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I believe there's a BIG hole in our churches in this area. Couples are told to pray for a spouse, then since it's God's will that's all the instruction they get.

NOT GOOD!!!

My daughter and her fiancé are going through pre-marital counseling with the youth pastor and wife, which I am so thankful for. This past week she called me all excited telling me about their session.

The pastor and wife had set up a table for them and served them dinner (just my daughter and her fiancé). They left them alone to enjoy the dinner, then came back after dinner and started teaching on servitude.

They talked about how important it was to have a servants heart in a marriage and they watched the portion of "The Passion" where Jesus washed the disciples feet and brought out the point how Jesus was able to do that knowing what Peter and Judas were about to do and applied that to marriage too.

Then, he brought in a basin of water and towels and said it was left up to them, but if they would like to reflect upon what they discussed and then wash each other's feet he was making it available to them. Then him and his wife left them alone.

She said they did it and it was so special - they prayed, cried and applied the lesson deep in their hearts, even to the point she said it was life changing.

I so appreciate someone cares enough to mentor our youth!
good example renda, life and marriage are what you make it, that teaching will help them build a better life together, our church requires that before marriage also, dt
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Old 05-23-2008, 08:46 AM
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I sure am glad to see this trainwreck of a thread get on firmer footing!


LOL! the first couple of posts were...well... uhm.... errr.....



like I said, it sure is good to see the last couple of posts!
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I sure am glad to see this trainwreck of a thread get on firmer footing!


LOL! the first couple of posts were...well... uhm.... errr.....



like I said, it sure is good to see the last couple of posts!
It can be done.
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Old 05-23-2008, 09:27 AM
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I believe there's a BIG hole in our churches in this area. Couples are told to pray for a spouse, then since it's God's will that's all the instruction they get.

NOT GOOD!!!

My daughter and her fiancé are going through pre-marital counseling with the youth pastor and wife, which I am so thankful for. This past week she called me all excited telling me about their session.

The pastor and wife had set up a table for them and served them dinner (just my daughter and her fiancé). They left them alone to enjoy the dinner, then came back after dinner and started teaching on servitude.

They talked about how important it was to have a servant's heart in a marriage and they watched the portion of "The Passion" where Jesus washed the disciples feet and brought out the point how Jesus was able to do that knowing what Peter and Judas were about to do and applied that to marriage too.

Then, he brought in a basin of water and towels and said it was left up to them, but if they would like to reflect upon what they discussed and then wash each other's feet he was making it available to them. Then he and his wife left them alone.

She said they did it and it was so special - they prayed, cried and applied the lesson deep in their hearts, even to the point she said it was life changing.

I so appreciate someone cares enough to mentor our youth!
That's awesome. I love how their church did that.
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Old 05-23-2008, 09:33 AM
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Old 05-23-2008, 09:36 AM
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get a load of the hair, wow i forgot about that time, what a song, lol,dt
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Old 05-23-2008, 09:44 AM
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I believe there's a BIG hole in our churches in this area. Couples are told to pray for a spouse, then since it's God's will that's all the instruction they get.

NOT GOOD!!!

My daughter and her fiancé are going through pre-marital counseling with the youth pastor and wife, which I am so thankful for. This past week she called me all excited telling me about their session.

The pastor and wife had set up a table for them and served them dinner (just my daughter and her fiancé). They left them alone to enjoy the dinner, then came back after dinner and started teaching on servitude.

They talked about how important it was to have a servant's heart in a marriage and they watched the portion of "The Passion" where Jesus washed the disciples feet and brought out the point how Jesus was able to do that knowing what Peter and Judas were about to do and applied that to marriage too.

Then, he brought in a basin of water and towels and said it was left up to them, but if they would like to reflect upon what they discussed and then wash each other's feet he was making it available to them. Then he and his wife left them alone.

She said they did it and it was so special - they prayed, cried and applied the lesson deep in their hearts, even to the point she said it was life changing.

I so appreciate someone cares enough to mentor our youth!
How refreshing...I'm so happy to hear this, Renda!
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Old 05-23-2008, 09:45 AM
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OH, so THAT's where the theme song for "The Crying Game" came from?
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