Randy - much as I like you, I have to disagree with your train of thought here. I think that you are way off base. I don't know if you are referring to me in the above post - but I have a feeling that you know quite a bit about this situation and the family circumstances - stop and think................... if this was YOUR wife and her family under the exact same circumstances, would you want people discussing it on this forum? Did you read all the posts that people made at the end of the article??? TMI given to the world for gossip fodder that ultimately the family will have to deal with - knowing that people are talking about it ........
".... And that's all I have to say about that............"
What does bother me is when this stuff is swept under the rug.... there is no doubt the Bible itself exposes the lives of those in it...
We need to talk about this stuff...We need to deal with it...I'm sorry but to NOT deal with it does seem like we are protecting our "secrets" somehow... and to the World outside possibly "Hiding" it...much more damaging to us then just keeping quiet and others at arms length...
What does bother me is when this stuff is swept under the rug.... there is no doubt the Bible itself exposes the lives of those in it...
We need to talk about this stuff...We need to deal with it...I'm sorry but to NOT deal with it does seem like we are protecting our "secrets" somehow... and to the World outside possibly "Hiding" it...much more damaging to us then just keeping quiet and others at arms length...
imo...
hey bro, we've known each other a long time. you know i'm your bro. i understand your frustration, believe me, i do. but i think once the guys been caught and is being prosecuted by the law that justice is being served and love needs to kick in. now, if the guy was still perping then by all means let's take of business. but he got busted, so there's no reason to further humiliate his family by piling on. it's the jokers in leadership that are continuing to destroy the kingdom that need to be exposed, not the schmuck who got busted already. that guy and his family and friends and associates need grace and mercy and love right now cuz the community at large is already throwing them under the bus.
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"Most human beings are not able to stand the message of the shaking of foundations. They reject and attack the prophetic minds, not because they really disagree with them, but because they sense the truth of their words and cannot receive it." Paul Tillich
hey bro, we've known each other a long time. you know i'm your bro. i understand your frustration, believe me, i do. but i think once the guys been caught and is being prosecuted by the law that justice is being served and love needs to kick in. now, if the guy was still perping then by all means let's take of business. but he got busted, so there's no reason to further humiliate his family by piling on. it's the jokers in leadership that are continuing to destroy the kingdom that need to be exposed, not the schmuck who got busted already. that guy and his family and friends and associates need grace and mercy and love right now cuz the community at large is already throwing them under the bus.
To the extent of loving those who the crimes were perpetuated against I have nothing but Love and prayers for them...
To the man who commited said crimes I will defer to the Lord...
Matthew 18:5-7 (King James Version)
King James Version (KJV)
5And whoso shall receive one such little child in my name receiveth me.
6But whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea.
7Woe unto the world because of offences! for it must needs be that offences come; but woe to that man by whom the offence cometh!
What does bother me is when this stuff is swept under the rug.... there is no doubt the Bible itself exposes the lives of those in it...
We need to talk about this stuff...We need to deal with it...I'm sorry but to NOT deal with it does seem like we are protecting our "secrets" somehow... and to the World outside possibly "Hiding" it...much more damaging to us then just keeping quiet and others at arms length...
imo...
Randy - you're missing my point.... that is my whole issue! It wasn't swept under the rug. These people came forward and told the truth. It will be dealt with - it is out of the hands of anyone who would try to keep it a secret. I sincerely admire and appreciate the ones who were willing to stand up against the evil that this man did!
Pray for the family involved, show them kindness and gentleness - give them a call and support them - send them a card letting them know you are thinking of them and praying for God's healing and peace in their life - but for pity sakes - don't blast their personal situations all over the world wide web!
Can you see where I am coming from? If it was MY daddy, brother, cousin, I wouldn't want people that didn't have real concern for my family blasting it all over the countryside - THAT's malicious and sleazy gossip - and that is exactly what the OP did! JMHO
I was taught, if you aren't part of the problem and you aren't part of the solution - it isn't your business to talk about it.
__________________ For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the LORD, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope. Jeremiah 29:11
There is a lot of molestation that occurs within rigid fundamentalist churches because they harbor criminals and pedophiiles by reason of the Patriarchal hierarchy and the enmeshment of leadership into individual family structure.
I think that this should be more than just a rhetorical question. Before we do spread information like this, I would like to know more about the validity. I'm not saying that this is not true, but I get very uncomfortable about repeating allegations. There may be some here on the forum who do have inside info and do know more in the way of evidence, but I do not and I like to at least wait until the person has had their day to either refute or be proven to be guilty.
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To the extent of loving those who the crimes were perpetuated against I have nothing but Love and prayers for them...
To the man who commited said crimes I will defer to the Lord...
Matthew 18:5-7 (King James Version)
King James Version (KJV)
5And whoso shall receive one such little child in my name receiveth me.
6But whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea.
7Woe unto the world because of offences! for it must needs be that offences come; but woe to that man by whom the offence cometh!
i didn't realize that this was to be taken literally.
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"Most human beings are not able to stand the message of the shaking of foundations. They reject and attack the prophetic minds, not because they really disagree with them, but because they sense the truth of their words and cannot receive it." Paul Tillich
Randy - you're missing my point.... that is my whole issue! It wasn't swept under the rug. These people came forward and told the truth. It will be dealt with - it is out of the hands of anyone who would try to keep it a secret. I sincerely admire and appreciate the ones who were willing to stand up against the evil that this man did!
Pray for the family involved, show them kindness and gentleness - give them a call and support them - send them a card letting them know you are thinking of them and praying for God's healing and peace in their life - but for pity sakes - don't blast their personal situations all over the world wide web!
Can you see where I am coming from? If it was MY daddy, brother, cousin, I wouldn't want people that didn't have real concern for my family blasting it all over the countryside - THAT's malicious and sleazy gossip - and that is exactly what the OP did! JMHO
I was taught, if you aren't part of the problem and you aren't part of the solution - it isn't your business to talk about it.
Amen to that.
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"Most human beings are not able to stand the message of the shaking of foundations. They reject and attack the prophetic minds, not because they really disagree with them, but because they sense the truth of their words and cannot receive it." Paul Tillich