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Originally Posted by areyourucky
I have a freind that told me, His kids live at home still, but do not go to church or live for God. He says, i rather have them drink at home, than some where else.
My responce was , the prodigal son, had to leave his father to live in the world of sin, when he came to himself, he returned to a Godly home, in order.
As dr. James dobson says, its hard to let go, some parents are held hostage in there own home. Does anyone else have any in put on this, so i may share with them later..
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I'd be concerned about their upbring and education. Why does "Not going to church..." have to equate to "Drinking...?"
I suppose if the kids were 14 and 15 and had your car keys, then it's better for them to drink at home than on the road. But how did we get to this place?
I've seen some people whose ideas on parenting were to either be Nazis or Nihilists. What if both of those options were wrong? You're going to raise some jerks that are as confused as the parents if you don't hurry up and figure this one out.
Better not to have married your first cousin in the first place; but what's done is done. Now all you can do is mitigate the damage that's been done and get the kid's tubes tied.