I can't stand someone!!!

[Cindy]

Originally Posted by Bella1

My family and I switched churches about 19 months ago after going to another church for 14 years.

For about 9-10 month, we sat and worshiped at the new church. No one really bothered us and we really did not try to make friends. Then we joined the choir and praise team. There was one lady who became a absolute thorn in my side. I literally cried every night when I went home because I had to sing with her. But know one knew except my husband how I felt.

Even though I am a confrontational person, I decided to just wait it out and see if the problem was with me or her. Because I have such a strong and outgoing personality, I assumed that she thought I was going to take over her spot on the praise team or something.

Well, all these months later and she is still not my favorite person She has not jerked the microphone out of my hand in quite awhile or asked the sound me to turn me down. I leave the lady alone. I very seldom speak to her. I go the the platform and give God all I can. Then I listen to the preaching and go home.

I am not at church to make friends, although I desire to and do have lots of buddies. If one person affects me negitivally, I just remove them from my circle of people. I do not like to offend anyone, although sometime people do say when they first meet me, they are petrified of me. ????? I honestly don't know why.

So yes. Everyone has that special Someone that is going to be that "person you just can't stand".

So you go to church with PO?................