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Originally Posted by Pressing-On
I don't agree with that.
Let's take a man that is verbally abusive. She loves the man, but he continues to hurt her and scare her a little with his rough demeanor through their years of marriage. She meets another man, who is her equal in some ways and brings out in her the things she wanted from her husband. She confesses to her husband that she had met someone else, telling him that she warned him this could happen to them, but he never listened and didn't try to treat her better - until - it happens.
He immediately has his eyes opened to his ways and goes on the mend - happily ever after.
I know someone this actually happened to. It took something like this instance to open his eyes. So, I place some of the blame on that husband, not that she was without fault on her part. But, as far as I know, it has ended well.
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You didn't state whether or not she actually committed adultery. If she did, she sinned, she was wrong.
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