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Originally Posted by Jeffrey
So just ignore all the other dozens of post since your first one?
Okay.. so what you said is sort of ambiguous (clarified by your many other posts, which we will ignore though). You don't have as much a problem with same-sex couples raising children as you do with heterosexual couples that don't take care of theirs.
I don't get the either/or thing. Heteros should take care of their children -- check. Now, what do you find acceptable with same-sex couples? I'll ignore your very explicit posts that suggest you see sexuality as making no distinction in the quality of parents (somehow parenting only being action, and not modeling).
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Daddy likes girls. Mommy doesn't. Does that mean their parenting skills are affected because one is attracted to girls and the other isn't? Maybe I'm dense, but I just don't see how you being attracted to girls affects how you parent your children. That subject has just never came up in the 18+ years I've been a parent when I've parented my children.
I love my children, but my liking boys instead of girls doesn't have anything to do with the love I have for my children.
I discipline my children, but I can do it just the same if I liked girls instead of boys.
I reward my children, but it doesn't come with the understanding that I'm heterosexual when doing so.
I teach my children, but my knowledge isn't any different now than it would be should my sexual orientation be different.
Am I still being clear as mud? I'm not speaking about how the children are affected by external things, but only in regard to the parenting skills of an individual.