Nuggets from Neck on The Marriage Relationship

[Neck]

Originally Posted by rgcraig

The women would call it the key to an AWESOME relationship!

Take notes guys!

rgcraig,

I could spend hours on this thread sharing all the great things my wife has done for me....

Most men define themselves by the 5% of their life that is the physical relationship with their wife.

I define myself and my wife by the 95% that is relationship.

I can tell you she is one awesome lady, person, christian, mother, daughter, friend...

She loves to laugh, cook, play pranks, buy small gifts, send cards, place phone calls.

She has to have the kitchen clean or she can't go to bed.

She puts up with me, 2 boys and a small (yes male) doggy.


It has been great.

I am glad my relationship with her is more than about battle plans towards the next physical conquest.

My side of the relationship is not about x's and o's to be played out for the next score.

That will be one chapter in any book that write.

Here is the day we started this journey.

[Neck]

Originally Posted by ILG

Problem is, if Neck wrote a book it would be read mostly by women!

When more men should read it than woman.

I know many of the relationship keys that have blessed my relationship and relations with my wife.

Have been very successful.

I have seen ten's of marriages end in divorce around me.

I have friends begging me for the keys in marriage relationship.

Problem is many men do not want to hear anything that may make then move towards change.

I can't for the life of me figure out that when being in Love with my wife.

She will just stay in love with me no matter my attitude, actions or habits.

I want her to feel happy, safe, successful and loved.

Then in return she is a woman of passion and love.

Do the Christian ladies on this thread understand that almost all my christian male friends.

Tap me on the arm even when we are with our wives.

When an attractive woman struts by...

I continue to ask them why they do this?

Everytime their wives joke "go ahead and take your look"!!!!

Funny thing my wife does not feel that insecurity and has not said that comment to me.

She knows that I notice...... But I am not jumping out of my shoe's.

If these guy's were in a relationship with a bit more "sap" they may stop defining every step of their life by the next attractive woman that walks by...

I could write 2 chapters on this subject, that needs to be corrected in so many relationships...

[rgcraig]

Great thread that maybe someone needs to read today!

[iceniez]

Originally Posted by Scott Hutchinson

Me too,Neck ought to write one.

Absolutly