I can not imagine my father feeling the need to do the same. In fact, I know he wouldn't because we know the pastor involved very well and we discussed this situation a few days ago. The pastor had no reason to be discussing this girl period. She wasn't his saint. The girl's pastor (which I know very well) stood behind her.
my biggest worry in all this was the impact this had on the ladies relationship with God.
If I am not reading too much in here, she is still going to church?
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