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There is no specifics on whether the pool was public or not...
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I thought the article mentioned the pool was at the home of the mutual friend. After re-reading the article, you are correct. It isnt specified.
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...There was also no specifics on whether or not she was alone with the other man.
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True, but in every post which I address this aspect of the story, I use the phrase "apparently" or something to the affect, therefore admitting it is speculation.
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...we can't even agree that her wearing a bikini was wrong in relation to her marriage.
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That's what makes discussion interesting. How long would a discussion last if the only response were 121 versions of "Yeah. That's right. Me too."?
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...Instead some have tried to turn this back onto the woman...
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I hope you havent included me in this "some". I mention my position on her actions, but I try to make it clear that I am more focused on the pastor's actions.
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...But all we have is wild speculation and that sort of thing is not enough to pass judgment on anyone.
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Speculation? Yes. Wild? I don't think I've made any rediculous leaps with my conclusions. I think each assumption I admittedly make is reasonable to make with the facts presented. I also thought I made it clear my opinion is subject to change if more facts were forthcoming.
And yet, all of the above circumvents my main reason for posting. My main point is the fact that the unanimous agreement that the pastor was wrong in his actions isn't exactly what one would expect from those of us who are portrayed as brainwashed and cultish for being affiliated with the UPCI. Perhaps those here who scorn the UPC and all it's loyal members need to re-evaluate the size of their brush.
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I am surprised that no one has mentioned the ex-husband, that is marrying the pastor's daughter, and what seems to be a very short courtship....
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Actually that possibility has been mentioned, and fairly early in the thread. Where have you been?