You really need to read the entire thread. Furthermore, I know where the original post came from, and that poster knows better.
Sister Alvear didn't say anything that requires forgiveness.
jfrog, generally speaking, Americans are spoiled. We don't have nearly the hardship of other countries. Most Christians don't suffer for their religion in this country, but in other countries it can mean persecution, harassment, prison or even death. Even when we are scraping by, we still have more,
generally speaking, than millions of other people all over the world. So, by that token, even when we "give till it hurts", we aren't truly hurting.
When my husband and I look over the budget to decide what we can give, we give us much as is comfortable. We give generously, but we aren't taking anything off the table for ourselves in order to do so. There HAVE been times when my husband was out of work or when his income was down when it was difficult to give tithes and offerings, but we did it anyway--and I'm convinced that God has blessed us for being faithful. Even in those times when our finances were tight, we never went without true necessities.
I'm informed enough to know that this is the case for MOST Americans. Ergo, I can speak for most of us when I say that while we are generous, it is true that we are STILL spoiled.
That's not to say that our blessings are a bad thing. We should be thankful and appreciate what we have and be good stewards of what God has given us. But I think we can take what a missionary has to say from another perspective and appreciate it for what it means--that some people are too caught up in their traditional lifestyle of plenty and comfort to think about the pain of others.
As for "getting my hands dirty"...I'm not going to make you a list, but suffice it to say that I've been on the side of ministry long enough to know that very few [
statistically--man, I hate having to qualify every little statement] are willing to actually do what is needed. Most would PREFER to throw money at a problem because that's easy and it alleviates the guilt of laziness. That's a fact, and if it makes you uncomfortable, too bad. I grew up in a pastor's home and I've been in ministry my entire life, and I've seen how few people actually want to "work" for the kingdom of God. There's an old statistic that says 20% of the people do 80% of the work, and it holds true for the most part. You have people who work, and you have others who expect to be served. That's just the way it is. I don't resent it, but I would be an ostrich if I didn't acknowledge it. I've personally seen people refuse to go to certain areas of town, so they will offer money to an effort instead. That's not to say that we shouldn't give, because obviously we can't all go overseas and we can't all immerse ourselves in charity, so it makes sense to support those who can. However, it would be obtuse to ignore the fact that money makes it easy for spoiled Christians to keep their hands quite clean and shiny.
It would do us all good to remember that God destroyed Sodom because of their lack of charity, among other things:
Ezekiel 16:49 Behold, this was the iniquity of thy sister Sodom, pride, fulness of bread, and abundance of idleness was in her and in her daughters, neither did she strengthen the hand of the poor and needy. 
Threaded Mode
