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Originally Posted by dizzyde
Exactly!!!! Huge part of the equation!! 
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I know and I have had the same exact thoughts you are experiencing (yet, without a guy as a part of the equation).
I had someone ask me if I thought I'd ever marry again. I said, probably not, but then I feel selfish saying that. Would I like to have someone to share things with, yep, but I'm also very happy right now in my life too.
My problem is.....do I say I won't because I THINK I couldn't? So, it's safe to say it first - no, I won't - then I'm not going to be disappointed. Know what I mean? I completely understand your "daughter" theory. There are tons of people out there available much more attractive than me, but I am fun - - ha!!!!
However, I went on to answer that person - - I like coming and going as I please, not fixing dinner all the time, sleeping in my big soft bed without worrying about getting in someone else's space, not looking "good" all the time if I don't feel like it, not talking if I don't feel like it or hanging on AFF when I do feel like it.
Dunno, the guy would have to look at me like I'm the best thing since sliced bread and mean it to make be consider it.
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