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11-12-2010, 03:11 PM
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Re: Pornagraphy and Disability
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Originally Posted by Aquila
Most married couples I've talked to have less intimacy if one of them is engaged in erotic material. The spouse often retreats into a fantasy world where they don't have to open up and be vulnerable, they can control what happens, and they can have their cake and eat it too.
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11-12-2010, 03:11 PM
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Re: Pornagraphy and Disability
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Psalm 101:3
I will set no wicked thing before mine eyes: I hate the work of them that turn aside; it shall not cleave to me
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If we want to be separate from the world, we have to guard our eyes and other activities.
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11-12-2010, 03:12 PM
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Re: Pornagraphy and Disability
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Originally Posted by Socialite
I know wives that want to bring porn into the relationship... a way to rev the engines.
(I think it's a horrible idea, by the way)
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I can lead to questions in the mind.. "Would he rather I looked like that or done it that way" Its a dangerous and damaging activity to a marriage.
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11-12-2010, 03:12 PM
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Re: Pornagraphy and Disability
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My thought here is , if one is "disabled" in such that they can not have sex then what would be the point of porn in the first place if same said one can not satisfy themselves with it ?
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Be like mental torture!! 
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11-12-2010, 03:13 PM
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Re: Pornagraphy and Disability
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Wasn't my point. But I agree. 
I was just miffed for being implicated as a porn addict when I was in the Army and we'd check out the Playmate of the month on occasion. lol |
Whether that's addiction or not, my husband has a standing request to not view erotic material out of respect for his commitment to be faithful to me. My husband and I are accountable to one another in this area, and I would consider a personal offense if he were viewing porn on a regular basis. (Even if what I call "regular" wouldn't qualify as addiction.)
I shouldn't even call it a standing "request", because I didn't have to ask him for it. He's just committed and is open and honest.
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11-12-2010, 03:13 PM
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Re: Pornagraphy and Disability
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I would have to agree. For some it is something that is engaged in when single but dropped once married. Not all people who ingage in porn or otherwise become addicts.
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Well, let's move from anecdotal to something more research-based, shall we?
Research with statistics regarding guys with porn says otherwise.
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11-12-2010, 03:13 PM
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Re: Pornagraphy and Disability
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Originally Posted by Socialite
I know wives that want to bring porn into the relationship... a way to rev the engines.
(I think it's a horrible idea, by the way)
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Suuuurrrre, you do. 
No, really, I've actually dealt with a couple with this issue. It didn't really turn out so well for them.
But the terminology you used.....there are many people who use porn to "rev the engines", which was the point I was trying to make which resulted in several yelling at me that I was wrong. It's actually a VERY serious problem with many porn users and they get to the place they can't have sex unless they've viewed porn. It's a very serious problem.
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11-12-2010, 03:14 PM
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Re: Pornagraphy and Disability
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Originally Posted by sandie
Psalm 101:3
I will set no wicked thing before mine eyes: I hate the work of them that turn aside; it shall not cleave to me
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What did this verse mean to the original audience? Easy on the proof-texting. The TV crowd love this verse, and use it entirely out of context. There are other scriptural lessons to use.
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11-12-2010, 03:14 PM
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Re: Pornagraphy and Disability
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Originally Posted by Socialite
Well, let's move from anecdotal to something more research-based, shall we?
Research with statistics regarding guys with porn says otherwise.
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I said "some".
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You can't reach the world with your talents. People are sick and tired of religious talents. People need a Holy Ghost annointed church with real fruits to reach out and touch their lives. ~ Pastor Burrell Crabtree
In fact I think that the insinuation of "hateful" Pentecostals is coming mostly from the fertile imaginations of bitter, backslidden ex Apostolics who are constantly trying to find a way to justify their actions. ~ strait shooter
www.scottysweb.com
www.chrisscottonline.com
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11-12-2010, 03:15 PM
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Re: Pornagraphy and Disability
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Originally Posted by Socialite
Still touchy, Aquila. Who has called for anyone to admit anything? You admitted first, now you feel vulnerable and you are going off on everyone. Calm down a bit.
What's the "addict" level? One porn movie a day? Twice a day? Every other day?
Who is pulling the self-righteous card? I think you got your feelings hurt.
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I don't think there's any need for touchiness about this issue. I can't believe there's a single male member of this forum that hasn't viewed porn at some point or another.
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