I'm confused Christmas tree or not?

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Originally Posted by RandyWayne

I agree with advice concerning the fact that the man and woman of the house need to be in agreement, even if it an agreement to disagree. However, kids MUST know that their parents have more authority over them then a pastor. They NEED to know that what mom and dad says is vastly more important than what their pastor says, especially concerning things like family traditions and family life in general.

So basically I am in strong disagreement that the parents need to somehow form a united front with their church in order to point a way for their children. This is coming from someone who was raised more by his pastor, via way of his parents doing whatever he said, then his parents, and is the reason I have still not found a church that I feel comfortable in.

Originally Posted by Paula

My Husband, who is a lot more rational than I am, says the tree stays since the kids had such a great time putting it up. Since I spoke to my husband first, the kids are oblivious to my wishy washy mindset concerning the tree.

Thanks again for all your advice. WOW this created quite the debate!

Not sure what we'll do next year if the Lord tarries, but my husband and I will definately spend some time praying and figuring out what's best for out three kids. I just want them to be saved.

Really, take Randy's post to heart.