It's funny. We approach our Christian walk like a spiritual 12 step program. If we want to overcome sin and live in victory we must:
1.) Read our Bibles every day.
2.) Pray at least three times a day.
3.) Pray in tongues at least 30 minutes a day.
4.) Try harder.
5.) Rededicate.
.......... and the list could go on and on.
No. All one must do is rest in His grace, lay the need for change before Him, and appropriate who the Bible says we are in Christ by believing it to be so through faith... even if we don't see any evidence of that righteousness yet. When God changes you it's more than just a self willed behavior modification. It's a change in nature and identity. It's you becoming less you... and more Jesus.
If you're tired of a works based salvation...turn to a life of faith. As this song plays, pay attention to the words and let them be your prayer to your loving and merciful Father. He could never love you more... and He'll never love you less. You can't change you. Only He can change you child of God, as you realize who you truly are in Jesus Christ. Rejoice. You already are... perfect in Him. Now allow that reality to flow through you.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fj-1SmPthQI