Sister it aint your feelings that you need to let go of.... I stumped my toe the other day, it felt terrible. I mean it really hurt. (that's what you call a feeling).
Its the incessant PSYCHO-BABBLE that is driving me nuts. Here is a hint, your OFFICE is the place where you Psycho-babble people. NOT AN INTERNET FORUM.
You want to fix people who are all screwed up in their heads? great, wonderful, fantastic. Get them to come to your office so you can get paid. Free advice on the internet however is making this perfectly sane person about half nuts!
On the subject of feelings.... what a crock. most of what you say (like the rest of us) is OPINION NOT FEELING. There is a difference. and honestly my opinion is worth no more than yours or anyone else's. I am tired of the wishy washy namby pamby everyone is suffering Freud fraud your passing out around here. Not everyone is weak and snivelly.
Here is some Psycho-babble for ya, life can suck sometimes. So suck it up and be a man! (Even if you are a woman). GET OVER YOURSELF AND DEAL PEOPLE!
This incessant drone about feelings is so limp wrested that it makes me want to hurl about half the time!
And one more thing, dearest child of God. Rhoni, my sister in the Lord. You've divorced your husband. He is out of your life. Gone forevermore. No longer a source of your pain. so PLEASE STOP TELLING ME WHAT A HORRIBLE PERSON HE WAS WHEN YOU WERE MARRIED! I don't know the guy, I don't really have any reference point related to him. Its YOUR issue, NOT MINE.
There. I feel better. Carry on.
Ferd, It must be terrible carrying all that pent up rage in you from day to day. I am glad you got it out on this public forum.
BTW, my job and calling is therapy and I do it where ever there is a need...it comes naturally, so I am sorry you don't like my psychobable but it is part of me...just put me on ignor sweetie
As far as my ex-husand...He treated me well when we were married, I have no complaints about that...it was the divorce that was hell...but I have been over that a long time. I just tell it as part of my story.
Ferd, It must be terrible carrying all that pent up rage in you from day to day. I am glad you got it out on this public forum.
BTW, my job and calling is therapy and I do it where ever there is a need...it comes naturally, so I am sorry you don't like my psychobable but it is part of me...just put me on ignor sweetie
As far as my ex-husand...He treated me well when we were married, I have no complaints about that...it was the divorce that was hell...but I have been over that a long time. I just tell it as part of my story.
So, carry on now that your load is lighter.
Blessings, Rhoni
I am reminded of the words from the good book.
hearing they cannot hear...
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Oh and Rhoni, this isn't "just part of your story".... and really it is a sad commentary on your inability to recognize what you are doing:
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Originally Posted by Rhoni
My ex-husband missed many major events in our children's lives, one of which was their senior prom. My daughter went with her now husband. She had worked hard at school, been a leader in many school activities and I saw nothing wrong with her joining in the festivities, She now has memories that I did not have of school. I was so busy being different that I have dreams of not being able to find my locker at school. I wanted things to be different for my kids, and they are still in church but still had class rings and prom as good memories of their high school experience.
My son attended two proms and we have family photes with Mom, grandma, and his red t-top car and his dates. He still lives for God, is in church, married and has a baby on the way.
My children were so afraid of their Dad and grandpa that they did things with my knowledge and supervision that Daddy never knew about..or pretended not to know about. The fear didn't keep them from doing them and having a good time though ! I am used to taking the brunt of things/blame for things from my ex, the children, and others that I just take it all in stride and 'pray' when things get a little overwhelming.
Blessings, Rhoni
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Oh and Rhoni, this isn't "just part of your story".... and really it is a sad commentary on your inability to recognize what you are doing:
This is post-divorce...like I said all my issues were after we were divorced.
It is part of the story...I have a right to my story like you have one of your own...get off the subject...you said your piece and we can agree to disagree
This is post-divorce...like I said all my issues were after we were divorced.
It is part of the story...I have a right to my story like you have one of your own...get off the subject...you said you piece and we can agree to disagree
Blessings, Rhoni
sorry. you asked. I think the insestant man bashing/ex husband bashing is tiresome. it isnt "part of the story" Rhoni. Its sour grapes and more information than most sane people care to hear.
its your issue. not ours.
__________________ If I do something stupid blame the Lortab!
sorry. you asked. I think the insestant man bashing/ex husband bashing is tiresome. it isnt "part of the story" Rhoni. Its sour grapes and more information than most sane people care to hear.
its your issue. not ours.
It does get a tad tedious after a while.
__________________ "Then answered Amos, and said to Amaziah, I was no prophet, neither was I a prophet's son; but I was an herdman, and a gatherer of sycomore fruit:
And the LORD took me as I followed the flock, and the LORD said unto me, Go, prophesy unto my people Israel."
Actually, it was a period during FCF existence before NFCF. FCF was around for a while after the island because that's when I found FCF and they were talking about the island.
The island was a nice and peaceful place where only good things were said about each other. It was as if we all pulled together toward one goal.
Before this thread fades into oblivion, I just want everyone who voted and expressed their true opinions to know that I appreciate it. I will think about everything that was posted here and make adjustments where I feel necessary.
! I am used to taking the brunt of things/blame for things from my ex, the children, and others that I just take it all in stride and 'pray' when things get a little overwhelming.
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