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Originally Posted by Ferd
Sister it aint your feelings that you need to let go of.... I stumped my toe the other day, it felt terrible. I mean it really hurt. (that's what you call a feeling).
Its the incessant PSYCHO-BABBLE that is driving me nuts. Here is a hint, your OFFICE is the place where you Psycho-babble people. NOT AN INTERNET FORUM.
You want to fix people who are all screwed up in their heads? great, wonderful, fantastic. Get them to come to your office so you can get paid. Free advice on the internet however is making this perfectly sane person about half nuts!
On the subject of feelings.... what a crock. most of what you say (like the rest of us) is OPINION NOT FEELING. There is a difference. and honestly my opinion is worth no more than yours or anyone else's. I am tired of the wishy washy namby pamby everyone is suffering Freud fraud your passing out around here. Not everyone is weak and snivelly.
Here is some Psycho-babble for ya, life can suck sometimes. So suck it up and be a man! (Even if you are a woman). GET OVER YOURSELF AND DEAL PEOPLE!
This incessant drone about feelings is so limp wrested that it makes me want to hurl about half the time!
And one more thing, dearest child of God. Rhoni, my sister in the Lord. You've divorced your husband. He is out of your life. Gone forevermore. No longer a source of your pain. so PLEASE STOP TELLING ME WHAT A HORRIBLE PERSON HE WAS WHEN YOU WERE MARRIED! I don't know the guy, I don't really have any reference point related to him. Its YOUR issue, NOT MINE.
There. I feel better. Carry on.
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Ferd, It must be terrible carrying all that pent up rage in you from day to day. I am glad you got it out on this public forum.
BTW, my job and calling is therapy and I do it where ever there is a need...it comes naturally, so I am sorry you don't like my psychobable but it is part of me...just put me on ignor sweetie
As far as my ex-husand...He treated me well when we were married, I have no complaints about that...it was the divorce that was hell...but I have been over that a long time. I just tell it as part of my story.
So, carry on now that your load is lighter.
Blessings, Rhoni