Awww... you guys are beyond sweet!
Getting everything sorted after mom's passing was a big deal. Her desire to not have services of any kind has kind of left a big void in my family. I am not sure of her reasons and I am trying to respect her wishes but I really believe that funerals are much more for the living than the dead and some how we got cheated or our opportunity to grieve. Which makes me sound like a fussy baby... So when her ashes come back I think we may just have a service against her wishes... I mean what can she really do to us, right? (OK, maybe death humor is not for everyone

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I missed you guys too